Here are some of the big questions kids (10-14) have, although they will rarely, if ever, vocalize them. Understanding the questions is half the battle; having all the answers is not necessary, even if it were possible.
Who are my real friends? Who really likes me? In which group do I belong?
Who am I? How am I like and different from others my age?
What will I do with my life? Will I be important?
What sort of career and family will I have?
What will I look and act like when I am a grown up?
Am I cool?
Am I respected?

